pp: Small town syndrome. You know, where everyone knows who you are, everyone knows your family and everyone knows your parents well. They all have an opinion on which one of them you look like more, and it's hard to grieve and deal with other family things privately as everyone has an opinion or everyone wants a gossip. Everyone has expectations of you and what you should achieve, and how far you are going to go in life - and sometimes I feel like I just wish I'd grown up in a city as an anonymous person, where it wouldn't matter if I didn't live up to those expectations or if I had a bad haircut. That was more of a rant :p