Wait, if you "have to be" generous, that's an obligation. Generosity is a state of the heart, not something imposed on you. I was talking to my son about organized religions and their need for support through charitable contributions. Some churches have programs, worship services and outreaches that encourage participation because there are perceived benefits. Others rely on teachings that define a certain percentage of one's income as a proper donation. One I know of makes it a sin not to show up with your offering. Which do you suppose is the best at raising money?