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I am glad for the assistance. So theres a girl at work who ticks about every box i can think of (music taste isnt great, but is willing to learn). EXCEPT shes seeing a dude. for the last 4 years. who moved half way round the world for her. so normally that would be a no go zone. until she is constantly messaging me, work email, phone, facebook (without adding me as a friend). its pretty constant and theres an awful lot of flirting at work. So thats the base situation. Then yesterday we have lunch together, things are going well, laughing our asses off and generally getting along ridiculously well. Yet 2 hours later she comes up, tells me shes feeling really mentally bleh and is going home, before storming off and sending me snarky messages implying that i've cocked something up. then this morning she messages me all cheery again.

So my question to you Deeds is what the hell am i meant to do with this girl?
 
I am here to tell you that it sounds very much like the girl is attracted to you, but doesn't know what she wants. She will probably not leave her boyfriend though, so I'd honestly save yourself the hassle and see if she has any single lady friends.

And where did you have lunch?
 
I am in agreement with Deeds about everything he said. I'm think i'll wait a few more weeks before scoping her friends though. there are 1 or 2 more tricks up my sleeve.

Lunch was just at a cafe near our office, nothing overly special.
 
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