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karmicaria

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I was so happy when I saw a place for blogs. I love to blog! I have a few of my own that I try to update on a regular basis. One is dedicated to all the stuff I do one Nation States. The other is more personal and will probably end up being a little open at points.

At any rate, I tend to ramble on about nothing really. Maybe I should start by giving a little information about myself.

I'm female, 27 and live in Ontario, Canada. I have red hair and blue eyes.

I'm not married, but I do live with my long time boyfriend and we have two beautiful daughters, ages 5 and 1 year, 6 months.

Now, I'm wondering if this is a place where I can be completely honest and not get judged for how I feel or the things I do. I don't think I'll go on much further until I can figure that out. You will get a glimpse into my mind from time to time. Especially if I'm upset about any particular situation.

Here are the links to my other blogs.

http://karmisramblings.blogspot.com/

http://karmicplace.spaces.live.com/

Read away, people! Leave comments to let me know that you were there!

Peace, love and fluffy bunnies

~Karmi~

P.S. The title of this should be "Karmi 's Bloggy Goodness", but apparently, I made an error there. <_<
 
Have you ever met someone who is so incredible, so amazing? Someone who treats you like something more precious than gold? If you have, it's great! To have a person in your life that makes you feel happy and good about yourself.

I've met such a person. We met about 5 months ago. I've recently come to realise that I have very strong feelings for this person. However, there is a problem. He is unattainable. In all fairness, so am I. That doesn't change the way that I feel.

What should I do? Should I tell him that I respect our friendship, but my feelings towards him are more?
 
There are a few different factors that make him and myself unattainable. We'll start off with the fact that we live in different countries. Mind you, it is only a 2 hour flight. Next, we're both in relationships. I love the person that I'm with, but this other man fills the gaps that are left by my current relationship and vice versa.
 
Hmmm..well honestly..that is a very sticky situation...Because nurturing the feelings you have for this other man could cause the current relationship you're in to end..so you have to be willing to let go of this man..and that is a risly thing to do seeing as how you do not know for sure this other man has feelings for you. So caution is my best advice.
 
We are friends before anything else. The last thing I want to do is lose that friendship. He's there when I really need some one to talk to and has helped me through a lot.

However, you're right when you say that I should use caution. He knows that I have fairly strong feelings towards him, he just doesn't know to what extent. The same in my case. I know that he has strong feelings for me, but not to what extent.
 
Can i ask how you met this other person, i.e. through NS or other internet based forums?

I have to say i got myself into a 'situation' with someone who i met over the internet and yes it is nice to have that friendship and bond, but there is a big difference from going from being just friends and talking online to being in a relationship.

Having been there i have to say be very careful in what you choose. It's always easy to find comfort in talking to someone online, and creating almost a sanctuary for yourself. Be sure that leaving the person you are with, to be with the other is exactly what you want before you do. It'll be a big move, and change alot.

Always here if you need me. :hug:
 
We met through NS. It started as a quick question and evolved into many late night conversations.

I should mention that neither of us plan on leaving out significant others to be with each other. If, at some point in the future, we both find our situations have changed, we might give it a try to see how things go. There would be no jumping straight into a relationship that goes beyond friendship.

Yes, we have talked about this.

And thank you, CC. The same goes for me. :hug:
 
karmicaria:
Have you ever met someone who is so incredible, so amazing? Someone who treats you like something more precious than gold? If you have, it's great! To have a person in your life that makes you feel happy and good about yourself.

I've met such a person. We met about 5 months ago. I've recently come to realise that I have very strong feelings for this person. However, there is a problem. He is unattainable. In all fairness, so am I. That doesn't change the way that I feel.

What should I do? Should I tell him that I respect our friendship, but my feelings towards him are more?
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I don't know how to sugarcoat this, so here goes. The hours you spend talking to this man online do nothing to improve the relationship you have with the flesh-and-blood man in your life. You've built a family with him, and the day-to-day going can get real tough. It's a lot of work.

An internet relationship is too easy, easy to the point of unreality. Keep your focus on the person you can take by the hand and look in the eye.

:hug:
 
I have to agree with ^. Yeah, hold on to your butts, the world might end because of it. However, friendship is a wonderful thing and if you can't love your friends in a purely plutonic manner then who can you love? There are things you can talk about with your friends that you can't talk about with a spouse or SO. I seem to have very little time for friends in real life so I find them online. Friends fill in gaps....that's their jobs. My wife is not a big fan of medieval stuff....I like it. My wife is not a sports fan.....ummm....see my avatar. But there are lots of other things we both like and enjoy and the chemistry and spark we have is the meat of our relationship. Sure we met on the internet long before that was seen as politically correct but we were both single, living in the same state and looking for a relationship.

Friends fill gaps, true loves leave them. You need to look at your current SO and this other guy and see who does what. That will show you the roles they should have in your life. Happy soul-searching.
 
Straying away from the topic of "the other man" for the moment.

I get to go out this weekend! We have a sitter for the kids! So, it's dinner, a movie and then we're going to have some friends over for some socialising!

I really look forward to times like this, since I don't get them very often. Fun times!

I'm sure that I'll have a bunch to write about on Sunday! Yay!
 
Ah, but I will be staying away from the computer while I'm drinking. So, you'll just have to wait until Sunday for the juicy or not so juicy stories. :D
 
Monumental Proportions:
You should. We'll learn all about the real Chao, the one that sober Chap doesn't want anyone to know about...

So how about some stories of your "wild years"?
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I don't think you can handle the wild years. Sorry no drunk posts..didnt get drunk and Dylan didnt go home till like 5 a.m. so I passed out. :lol:

but in high school I was all gothic and scary. I wish I had a picture coz I would post it like that! It is so crazy looking!
 
Just in high school? I was all gothic and scary up until recently and I'm 27 now. Of course, I still dress all in black, but I don't dye my hair black anymore.

I think the freakiest thing about me is my tongue ring. ;)
 
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