flemingovia:
Sorry, but the hound is hunting. It is probable that you have never been in a refugee camp, or had anything to do with refugees. So let me give an analogy.... If I suggested roleplaying a mass shooting in Paris, or in a daycare centre party, it is probable a number of people would be posting similar questions.
For each of us there will be subjects or issues that we consider it unsuitable or tasteless to use as a basis for playtime. My original question was to see whether there were others out there who found the refugee crisis to be one of those.
What I'm saying is the 'hound that won't hunt' is the concept that you can not write about a subject without being disrespectful is nonsense. Also it's silly to think that we should not write about these subjects with dignity and fair treatment as they can help us to understand the issues and emotions more fully. It's also It's also not true that you can't understand a subject without direct experience. Can you know the whole experience without direct experience, no. Do you need to know the whole experience to relate or convey? No. There are many authors who soulfully have created honorable fiction/stories on these very subjects and somehow were never refugees themselves and in some cases never personally knew refugees.
Was "Uncle Tom's Cabin" distasteful 'playtime' rather than being useful in showing the plight of a people. What about the fiction stories about the holocaust in the holocaust museum library written by non-victims? Again, do you have a particular post you're finding objectionable?
"If I suggested roleplaying a mass shooting in Paris,..." Paris does not exist in TNP, and YOUR motives for RPing a mass shooting specifically in Paris and of this type seem questionable. Would it be OK to ever RP a mass shooting? War? Famine? Piracy? Theft? Fill in the whole range of all that's wrong with this world. Unless TNP is going to be RPing tea parties and cupcakes I think it's a safe bet that there will be some similarities between incidents, but as long as it's properly treated then it should not be distasteful.
"It is probable that you have never been in a refugee camp, or had anything to do with refugees." Ill give you that I've never been a refugee myself, but you'd be wrong about having anything to do with refugees. My family originally came here to the US as refugees. Grew up with refugees as neighbors and friends and many in my community and school. Family, church, and school provided community, and assistance to refugees. I even had a chance to hear the stories of refugees from past conflicts including my neighbors who were concentration camp survivors and survivors of other atrocities. Neighbors that experienced being refugees in Asia, Africa, the Middle East, and even Europe.
Even after I grew up and left home I'm still making friends with refugees, hearing their stories, helping them where, when, and how I can. (Making friends and providing assistance to refugees from Sudan, Iraq, etc. here in the USA and sending help abroad.)
Properly treating a subject isn't necessarily 'playtime' but instead can be used to help others to understand the issues people face in these situations, and the emotional experience of the subject, and can lead us to have more compassion, knowledge, and lead us to help in ending these situations.