Limi:
The issue is that the courts ruled that the RA rule 1 which deals with using abstentions purely for quorum purposes and not using them to determine a result is unconstitutional which means that I'm left with 2 options.
Counting it as a valid vote means that it must then be used for the purposes of determining a result. This means it has to be decided as either for the matter at vote or against the matter at vote. There is no way to count them without deciding this matter. Since they are not votes for the matter at vote then they would have to be counted as against the matter. Should there be 4 ayes, 2 nays, and 3 abstentions in a vote requiring a majority from among the votes cast it would fail as only 4 of the 9 votes cast were in favor. Essentially this would make the abstain vote count as a nay vote.
Not counting it as a valid vote would then exclude it from being used to determine a result. While I don't like the idea of forcing people to choose aye or nay, especially when there is a legal requirement to participate in votes, I dislike even more the idea that choosing not to vote in either direction would force it to be counted in a certain direction, which contradicts the idea behind the vote.
Abstentions are 'non-votes' because they are simply the equivalent of voting 'present'. Under Roberts Rules of Order, 'abstentions' or 'present but not voting' may be counted towards a quorum, but are not counted as votes.
Hence, if quorum has been attained by the number of voters present or abstaining, then the plurality is concluded by those individuals choosing to vote.
An 'abstain' or 'present' vote is simply a political tool to not offend either party in a vote or to display displeasure at the vote entirely, or to display disdain for one's own party's stance on a vote.
In all parliamentary procedures in every system, it is unanimously recognized under rules of order of any given logical system that if quorum is reached (which included abstentions and present votes) and there are 97 abstentions and present votes, and only three people actually vote, two for and two against, then the plurality is 2 to 1.
In terms of logic, if a quorum of voting members has been reached, those who essentially choose not to vote have removed themselves from the decision making and have no reason to complain if the vote doesn't go their way.
This is the way all parliamentary systems operate unless there are specific and detailed provisions to the contrary.
The other solution, which would be a complete failure, IMHO, is to hold a role call before the vote, and then vote. The role call is the quorum, and if you don't answer the initial role call, you cannot vote, and you are not part of that vote. And, if a majority of those responding to the role call refuse to vote or abstain, then the issue is defunct.